Alumni Spotlight: Lauren Crossman

January 5, 2026

Mind Over Matter: How Trinityhouse Alumna Lauren Crossman Is Shaping Futures

Trinityhouse Randpark Ridge

Year: 2011

 

Education is more than textbooks and classrooms; it is also about unlocking potential, nurturing resilience, and guiding young people towards becoming their best selves. Few understand this better than Lauren Crossman (née Jordaan), who matriculated at Trinityhouse Randpark Ridge in 2011. Today, she is an educational psychologist making a real difference in the lives of children and families. Her journey blends academic achievement, professional purpose, and a deep personal connection to Trinityhouse, a connection set to continue when her own children join the school in the years ahead.

 

You matriculated at Trinityhouse Randpark Ridge in 2011. Looking back, how did Trinityhouse shape your love for psychology and working with children?
  I had always wanted to be a psychologist, even as a child. I loved helping others and was often involved in outreaches, youth groups and children’s homes. Trinityhouse really encouraged that community spirit and combining this with my passion for working with children and adolescents made educational psychology a natural fit.
 

You’ve built a career as an educational psychologist. What does a typical day in your practice look like?
  My mornings are usually admin-filled, but after 1pm my afternoons belong to my clients. If I’m assessing, I start at 9am with three hours of assessment, then break for lunch before therapy sessions. Sometimes I travel to assist at another practice too, no two days look exactly the same.
 

You completed your master’s in educational psychology at the University of Pretoria in 2019. How did that journey shape you?
  I loved it! The programme was incredibly relevant and practical, equipping me for the real world of practice. I also gained amazing colleagues who are still a huge part of my professional support system today.
 

What’s the most rewarding part of your work with children and families?
  The privilege lies in witnessing families find the clarity they need, together with a supportive process that helps them move forward.

Educational psychology bridges learning and emotional wellbeing. How do you help learners unlock their potential?
  My biggest focus is helping learners realise they are not defined by what they’re going through. I guide them in finding the internal or external resources they already have – and show them how to use those tools to thrive.
 

Is there a misconception about educational psychology you’d love to clear up?
  For a long time, people thought we only dealt with academic cases and weren’t equipped for serious emotional challenges. Thankfully, that narrative has shifted – our work is so much broader.
 

You’re now returning to Trinityhouse as a parent, with your toddler starting at RPR in 2028! How does that feel?
  Surreal! I’ve always felt connected to Trinityhouse, through my work with Trinity families and even completing my Honours practicum there. It’s exciting to see how my son (and soon my second child!) will experience the opportunities I once had.
 

What excites you most about your boys stepping into the Trinityhouse world?
  What excites me most is knowing that my boys will step into an environment filled with choice, opportunity and diversity. Trinityhouse has always been a place where children are encouraged to explore, grow, and discover who they are, whether it’s through academics, sport, culture, or leadership. I can’t wait to see them embrace all of these experiences, find their passions, and create their own memories within the same community that shaped me. It feels incredibly special to know they will have the chance to carve out their own Trinityhouse journey while continuing the legacy.
 

What advice would you give the next generation of Trinitonians?
  Be grateful for the education and opportunities you have. The world may be changing, but a solid education is still the best foundation to lean on.
 

Quick-Fire! Let’s Go!
Tea or Coffee?
Coffee
Early bird or night owl? Neither!
Psychology in one word? Resilience
Dream holiday with family? Italy
Comfort food? Sushi
Favourite song? Too many to choose!
Toddler chaos or toddler cuddles – which wins? Always the cuddles
Terrible twos and terrifying threes: fact or fiction? FACT!



Lauren Crossman embodies what it means to be a Trinitonian for life. Her career in educational psychology is not only about guiding children through challenges but also about empowering families with hope and solutions. Her story highlights how the Trinityhouse foundation continues to influence lives long after matriculation. The legacy now continues as she prepares to see her own children begin their journey within the same school community that shaped her.

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